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He's just not that into you.

Tuesday, June 12, 2012 /


 Source: Interview Magazine 

Don't you find it difficult to understand men? I do. Sometimes, I don't know if it is just me or whether he is pulling himself away and taking a step back. 

Here are some signs to tell if a guy is not into you. 

1) He talks comfortably about other girls to you. 

He'll probably reply to you something along the lines of, 
"You told me to open up to you and when I do, there is a criteria. A filter. 
You only want to listen to things you want to hear" to make you feel guilty. Well girls, if you're expected to listen to him talk about how he's into Japanese girls and stuff like that, then perhaps it's time to do something about it. Take action and see how far it'll go. This includes asking you about your hot friend.

2) He's never there. 
He doesn't call you. Doesn't take the initiative to send you a text first. Doesn't ask you how you're doing. He's always "busy". He doesn't call back when he says he will. Normally with such signs like this, it is quite obvious that he isn't into you. And after sometime, when you're getting used to not having him around, he appears again and texts you out of the blue. He probably thinks you're a doormat and that he can come and go as and when he feels like it. 

3) His friends don't know you exist. 
Yup. Sounds familiar? 

4) He avoids talking about his feelings. 
If a man is truly interested in you, he will be willing to share information about himself. He wouldn't hold back and most importantly, he would open up to you. You won't even have a hard time "figuring him out". 

And lastly... 

5) He keeps you hanging and wondering about everything. 

Don't we all hate that? 

These signs will save you from wasting time from a relationship that will never happen. Keep in mind that if he's not into you, it doesn't mean that there is anything wrong with you. Darling, you just haven't met someone who truly deserves you. And that guy, who says you can't be friends with him? You'll just have to keep him in your "Out of Bounds" list. ;)