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"Is he your boyfriend?"

Sunday, June 26, 2011 / , ,


Someone asked me this question yesterday. To be honest, I didn't really know how to answer the person. When it comes to matters of the heart, right now, I'm not too sure about it myself.

You see, the whole idea of being in a relationship and being in love scares me. It's been a year since I embraced singlehood. The previous relationship was a nightmare because yours truly, being a little girl (ok not so little!!!) loved too much and received too little in return.

I wish being in a relationship was just as simple as just loving and caring about each other. If only things wouldn't get all complicated once you decide to take things to a more serious level. When you're in a relationship, you expect alot more from your partner. You expect him to understand you, to be there for you, to not be fooling around with other girls, to tell you everything, to not keep secrets etc. 

You see, this expectations could then... strain your relationship. It will most probably lead you to disappointment. Only the strongest will survive. 


Que sera, sera. 

Ruiting said...

IMHO, won't it be better to just love and not think too much? Everything that happened makes you who you are today. Unless you don't like yourself now, I don't see why you shouldn't experience love once more. You only live once, don't you? :)

RynaQUE said...

Man... I wish I knew what to reply to this comment. Well, let's just wait and see what happens. :)